So for example when Paul says ‘work and don’t be lazy’ it’s not because this is a law that God asks you to do but actually it is first (1.) Paul preaching unconditional Grace to the church (2.) the church falsely reacting to this and (3.) then Paul writing them to correct them.

You could see Paul saying: ‘You are free. There is nothing you need to do, because God has set you free through the sacrifice of Jesus’. Paul leaves. A few months later he hears about believers in this church who don’t work and live at the expense of others which is – as we all know – no love at all because it is selfish.
Well, now Paul says in a spirit of Grace: ‘work and don’t be lazy’. The whole context behind it changes the entire perception. And now we understand that we are birds still and not bound to work all the time but as the Spirit of Love leads us (that means not at the expense of others).

Same with this scripture here below in the comments: 1. Paul preaches the Gospel that doesn’t require sowing and reaping 2. People abuse it to sin, which is no love, cause it is selfish and hurts others 3. So in response he writes: ‘don’t be fooled you will reap what you sow’…
Good. Thank you MIck.

In Matthew 6, Jesus is talking about pysical things, things we need in this world, such as food, clothes, shelter etc. These pysical things, I believe, are what most preachers are trying to convince believers they will receive when they ’sow’ first (normally meaning, giving money to their ministry). However, Jesus teaches us that it is not about what we do, it’s about who God is, and how much he loves us. That, I believe, is the reason we receive good things in this life.

In Galatians 6, Paul is reacting to the argument everyone brought up against him as he continued to confirm and defend the gospel of God’s grace. That is “Oh, so grace means we can do all the evil we want and God will still think it’s all good”. When Paul talks about ’sowing and reaping’ in this scripture, he’s not talking about receiving ‘pysical things’ but about the results of chasing after and desiring the sinful nature. When we read the entire letter of Galatians, it’s impossible to think Paul is somehow endorsing a ’sow to reap’ mentality. Just change the word ‘law’ with ’spiritual principle’ and you find the same problem in the church today.

You foolish Pastor Moses! Who has bewitched you? Before your very eyes Jesus Christ was clearly portrayed as crucified. I would like to learn just one thing from you: Did you receive the Spirit by observing ’spiritual principles’, or by believing what you heard? Are you so foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to attain your goal by human effort? Have you suffered so much for nothing—if it really was for nothing? Does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you because you observe ’spiritual principles’, or because you believe what you heard? Galatians 3:1-5

How true that Grace means we don’t have to do ANYTHING AT ALL….this is an answer to something I’ve been asking God! Thanks Mick!